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Relational Resilience and the Alchemy of Presence

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From Self to System:

Relational Resilience and the Alchemy of Presence

In many professional environments resilience is still framed as an individual capacity: the ability to cope, endure, and keep going under pressure. Yet this framing is increasingly insufficient. Burnout, relational breakdown, and systemic strain point to a deeper truth: resilience is not only personal, it is relational. It lives in the quality of connection we are able to sustain – with ourselves, with others, and within the systems we are part of.

At the heart of relational resilience lies a subtle but powerful human experience: the moment connection shifts. Most people recognise it. You begin present, open, and engaged with another person. Then something changes: a tone, a comment, or even an internal association and the connection collapses. You find yourself no longer with the other, but inside your own reactions: defending, judging, withdrawing, or shutting down.

From Presence to Absence and Back Again

Otto Scharmer describes this movement as a shift from presencing to absencing. In a state of presencing, we are open, attuned, and responsive to what is emerging in the moment. In absencing, we become trapped in habitual patterns shaped by past experience. Our perception narrows, and our capacity to relate diminishes.

Understanding this shift is key to developing relational resilience. Absencing is not a failure; it is a natural, embodied response to perceived threat or discomfort. It is often driven by what Scharmer calls the three “voices of resistance”: the Voice of Judgment, which closes the mind through over-analysis; the Voice of Cynicism, which closes the heart through emotional distancing; and the Voice of Fear, which closes the will through anxiety or avoidance. These voices can arise quickly and subtly, often before we are consciously aware of them.

What makes relational resilience possible is the ability to recognise these micro-moments as they arise, and to work with them rather than be overtaken by them.

Relational Presence to Remain Aware and Connected

This is where the concept of relational presence becomes essential. Relational presence is not the absence of reaction, but the capacity to remain aware and connected within it. It is the ability to notice, “Something in me is tightening,” without immediately acting from that contraction. It creates a space between stimulus and response, where choice becomes possible.

Developing this capacity requires a shift from passive to active sensing of our bodily responses. Passive sensing is when we are immersed in our reactions without awareness. Active sensing, by contrast, involves turning attention toward the body and its signals and bringing them into conscious awareness: tuning in to breath, tension, posture, impulse. Body-based practices support this process by helping individuals engage directly with their lived, embodied experience, rather than only with thoughts about it.

Through this kind of awareness, the very reactions that pull us out of connection can become sources of information.

A tightening in the chest may signal a boundary being crossed; a surge of irritation may point to an unmet need or value. When met with curiosity rather than suppression, these responses become guides rather than obstacles.

Scharmer’s “opening process” offers a further pathway for moving from absencing back into presence. This involves three key gestures: suspending habitual judgments, redirecting attention inward to one’s own experience, and letting go of fixed expectations or outcomes. Together, these shifts create the conditions for a more responsive, less reactive way of engaging with others.

Staying Engaged within Tension, Difference or Misunderstanding

Relational resilience expands beyond the individual into the interpersonal and collective domains. In relationships, it shows up as the ability to stay engaged even when there is tension, difference, or misunderstanding. It allows for repair after rupture, and for dialogue even when there is polarisation. In teams and organisations, it contributes to cultures of psychological safety, trust, and shared responsibility, conditions that are essential for sustainable performance and wellbeing.

Importantly, relational resilience does not eliminate difficulty. Instead, it changes our relationship to it. Breakdowns in connection are no longer endpoints, but opportunities to return to awareness, to deepen understanding, and to strengthen the relational field.

In this sense, resilience is something to practice. It is cultivated moment by moment, in our capacity to notice when the “switch” has occurred and to consciously find our way back. From this perspective, the journey from self to system is not a linear progression, but a continuous movement between inner awareness and outer connection.

Ultimately, relational resilience invites a shift in orientation: from managing ourselves in isolation to participating consciously in relational networks that shape our lives and work. It is here, in the space between self and other, that more responsive, humane, and resilient systems begin to emerge.


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Empathy and ESG for Lasting Benefit to People and Planet

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The Future of ESG Is Relational

Empathy, Wellbeing and Collective Responsibility

ESG is increasingly being tested not only in boardrooms and policy frameworks, but in the lived reality of everyday work. As organizations navigate growing pressures around sustainability, they are also contending with a parallel challenge inside the workplace itself: rising levels of burnout, mental health strain, and a general erosion of human resilience. These internal dynamics are no longer separate from ESG priorities, they are central to them. If sustainability is to be truly meaningful and lasting, it must include the sustainability of people: their capacity to remain well, connected, and engaged in environments that are increasingly complex, hybrid, and demanding.

Adopting ESG principles means that organizational strategy is guided by three interconnected pillars: environmental, social, and governance considerations. ESG places emphasis on creating lasting benefit and making a positive contribution to society and the planet.

These principles establish standards for organizational behavior, policy, and accountability, while also providing measurable indicators used to evaluate sustainability and long-term impact.

ESG for Lasting Benefit to Society and Planet

ESG offers stakeholders a framework for understanding how organizations manage risks and opportunities related to environmental, social, and governance concerns. Ultimately, it is about creating practical, actionable strategies that generate lasting value for both society and business.

As of mid-2026, however, the global ESG landscape is itself undergoing significant change. Voluntary, marketing-driven initiatives are increasingly shifting toward mandatory, data-driven compliance frameworks. At the same time, a stark divide has emerged between more stringent European and Asian regulatory approaches and the political backlash against ESG seen in parts of the United States.

In response, many organizations are rebranding or moving away from the term “ESG” altogether due to political controversy and concerns about greenwashing. Terms such as “responsible business,” “sustainability strategy,” or more specific impact metrics are increasingly being used instead. Yet despite these shifts in language, the underlying practices and concerns remain highly relevant. Organizations are still being called upon to demonstrate meaningful social and environmental accountability, transparency, and long-term stewardship.

In this context, empathy offers something important: a way to ensure that sustainability efforts remain connected to lived human experience rather than becoming purely compliance-driven exercises.

In the following sections, I explore a few of the many ways empathy can support social cohesion within ESG practice, particularly within the social and environmental dimensions.

Empathy and the Social Dimension

The social pillar of ESG is perhaps the most obvious starting point for the application of empathy.

This dimension focuses on the human aspects of organizations: the relationships people have with themselves, with one another, and with the communities around them. It includes both internal and external stakeholders.

Many of the issues addressed within this dimension are directly supported by empathic principles and practices. One way to strengthen employee wellbeing and build meaningful connection, for example, is through the cultivation of empathic behaviors. Interestingly, empathy benefits both the giver and the receiver.

Imaginative empathy is particularly relevant to issues of equity, diversity, and inclusion. It involves taking an “imagine-other” perspective in order to better understand the lived experience of another person.

In an increasingly polarized world, empathy offers a pathway toward mutual acknowledgement, understanding, and respect for differing perspectives. When empathy is left to chance, people are more likely to empathize only with those who resemble themselves, while projecting assumptions onto those perceived as different. Yet empathy is not fixed; it is a trainable capacity that can help overcome in-group and out-group dynamics.

Empathy and the Environmental Dimension

Traditionally, the environmental pillar of ESG evaluates how organizations act as stewards of the natural world. This includes how companies use resources, manage waste, and understand their broader environmental impact.

However, when considering sustainable social cohesion, it is equally important to consider how people within organizations experience and relate to environmental policies. In this sense, a feedback loop exists between empathy and ESG.

When policymakers apply empathy in the design of ESG strategies, they are better able to create policies that genuinely reflect the experiences, concerns, and values of stakeholders. Listening to and understanding multiple perspectives helps bring people into meaningful participation with environmental initiatives rather than positioning them as passive recipients of policy decisions.

Environmental issues are also closely tied to personal values. Ensuring alignment between organizational policies and stakeholder values can strengthen both engagement and wellbeing (Branson, 2008).

Empathy and the Physical Space

The physical spaces in which people work are another important consideration at the intersection of the environmental and social dimensions.

Human beings have a lived, embodied experience of space, and this experience affects wellbeing. Researchers have increasingly explored the relationship between the built environment and emotional states, behavior, physical wellbeing, and social interaction.

Although the field is still emerging, studies in neuroarchitecture have already highlighted meaningful connections. One review examining the effects of neuroarchitecture on human wellbeing identified impacts across emotional, physiological, psychological, and cognitive dimensions (Assem, Khodier & Fathy, 2023). Interestingly, certain design elements, such as natural textures like wood , were shown to reduce heart rate and stress responses, even when participants were not consciously aware of these effects.

Empathy can therefore be applied both in researching user needs and in designing spaces that support wellbeing, connection, and psychological safety. Each of the five dimensions of integrative empathy offers useful insight into how environments can be designed to foster presence, listening, collaboration, and mutual understanding.

Empathy with the Natural World

Empathy can also extend beyond interpersonal relationships to include the natural world itself. Organizations such as the Organization for Networks of Empathy explore how empathy can be cultivated not only toward people, but also toward non-human life and even objects within museum and environmental education contexts. Both the Seattle Aquarium,and Two Oceans Aquarium, for example, uses empathy-based approaches to educate visitors about aquatic life and environmental stewardship.

In this way, empathy becomes a valuable tool for understanding environmental impact, designing human-centered environmental policies, and helping stakeholders meaningfully engage with sustainability initiatives.

Toward a Culture of Empathy

A culture of empathy contributes to social cohesion on many levels. As a set of principles, empathy can be integrated into organizational policies. As a process, it can underpin organizational routines. As a daily practice, it shapes how people engage with and relate to one another.

Perhaps most importantly, empathy helps soften rigid top-down structures and creates bridges across silos. In collaborative, multi-disciplinary, and transdisciplinary environments, cultivating a culture that empowers people to care for their own wellbeing while also listening to, understanding, valuing, and integrating the perspectives of others is essential.

In a fragmented and rapidly changing world of work, empathy may no longer be a peripheral “soft skill.” It may instead be one of the foundational capacities needed to build resilient organizations, sustainable workplaces, and healthier societies.

 

Assem, H. M., Khodeir, L. M., & Fathy, F. (2023). Designing for human wellbeing: the integration of neuroarchitecture in design–a systematic review. Ain Shams Engineering Journal, 102102.

Branson, C. M. (2008). Achieving organisational change through values alignment. Journal of Educational Administration46(3), 376-395.

Martingano, A. J., & Konrath, S. (2022). How cognitive and emotional empathy relate to rational thinking: empirical evidence and meta-analysis. The Journal of Social Psychology162(1), 143-160.


Supporting Healthcare Facing Crisis

Supporting Healthcare Facing Crisis

The Covid-19 crisis is impacting us all. For healthcare professionals who work day and night, the impact is specific and dire: The risk of contamination, constant pressure, long hours and the impossibility to be there for everyone who needs you. We are here to support healthcare workers facing the corona crisis.

As a healthcare professional you probably entered the profession with a vocation: helping others, doing something for humanity. Now is the time to test your calling to the limit. Beautiful: That is what we do it for! But also hard: people will get sick and people will die.

You go to work every day, do what you can and keep your courage and morale. This is only sustainable if you take care of yourself. 

To support healthcare professionals helping us all, we offer FREE ONLINE Empathic Intervision SESSIONS. 

In Empathic Intervision, colleagues come together to explore situations, questions and problems with an intent to learn from each other, improve expertise and co-evolve new insights to tackle professional difficulties.

In 90 minutes, online, from wherever you are, we guide you through a process to catch your breath, share experiences, be heard and take care of yourself and each other.

Email us on info@empathicintervision.com to book a session:

Wednesday 6 May 11h00 to 12h00 (Central European Time)
Tuesday 12 May 16h00 to 17h30 (CET)
Thursday 21 May 12h30 to 14h00 (CET)
Wednesday 27 May 11h00 to 12h30 (CET)

And if these dates don’t suit you, let us know. We will facilitate ongoing Empathetic Intervisions during this crisis and try to accommodate your schedules.

Your facilitators

Lidewij Niezink and Katherine Train, the co-founders of Empathic Intervision, will be your facilitators.  

Dr Lidewij Niezink is an independent empathy scholar and practitioner and co-founder of Empathic Intervision, holding a PhD from the University of Groningen in The Netherlands. She develops evidence-based interventions and education for diverse organisations and writes and speaks on empathy for scientific, professional and lay publics.

Dr Katherine Train is co-founder of Empathic Intervision and Empathy Facilitator at Design Thinkers Academy, South Africa. She holds a PhD from UCT, Graduate School of Business. She researches, develops and presents training on empathy, wellbeing and professional development. Current projects are with human-centred designers and service design in healthcare.